Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed - How To Pick Up Women - By Joseph Matthews
Posted by: dolce888, in UncategorizedFeeling clueless when it comes to picking up women? These handy tips will help get you started on the path of success to getting the women of your dreams!
Are you looking to start picking up women, but clueless about where to start?
Most of your friends probably don't know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn't know (and lord knows your mom couldn't tell you)! Even the dating "experts" that you see in the media wouldn't be able to give you the proper tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did - they'd never be able to appear on TV again! (Let's face it, the mainstream media is extremely feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).
Bottom line: Picking up women is not a politically-correct topic!
You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Fortunately, you found this article. So let's get started!
Let me first tell you what you DON'T need to pick up women.
You DON'T need to look like a "male model."
This is a huge mistake that almost all men make. Little do they realize that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.
So if you're insecure about your looks, don't sweat it! There's still hope.
Next, you DON'T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!
Some of the best pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)
If a girl really likes you, she's not going to care how much money you make or spend on her. And the key to picking up women is to get them to like you, right?
Lastly, you DON'T need big muscles, be a certain nationality or ethnicity, be famous, or any other things you can think of.
The secret is to have a great personality - this will make any other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you obsolete!
Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.
Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences. But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!
Go out as often as you're able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you're starting out. You don't have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but there is no better "practice ground" in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.
But regardless, make a point of going out to pick up women a certain number of times a week - after all, practice makes perfect!
When you're first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies. But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow. Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.
Remember: With Experience Comes MASTERY.
And what you're doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!
You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.
(Notice I didn't say "good looking." I said "look good." There's a difference. You can't control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance - your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)
Take the time to dress as nice as you can. Find clothes that look good on you and tailor them to fit. If you're not into fashion and don't know where to start, ask a female friend who's very fashion conscious to help you find the right types of clothes.
Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory - you don't NEED to do it. However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance). Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you'll feel!
Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities. Attractive women are everywhere, and it's always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!
Remember - every good pickup follows a very simple structure. This means there's a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.
This structure is as follows:
Find a girl.
Meet her.
Talk and Gain Rapport.
Build Attraction.
That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.
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"I just want to thank you for everything man, you are both a ladies man and a man's man. Your tips helped me in ways you can't imagine. I got off work and was driving my car and I was at a red light. A babe next to me was just waiting there with me and I started talking to her and she asked me if I wanted to go to the Wendy's around the corner! Hell yes I did!!! The light turned green and long story short - I got laid that night, and we are still going out. Thanks for everything!" –Alec
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